With Valentine’s Day approaching, love is in the air – and not just for humans. New research from Canine Cottages reveals that dogs, our most loyal companions, have unique ways of expressing their love. A study found that a dog’s heart rate increases by 46.2% when they hear the words “I love you”, highlighting the emotional depth of the bond between dogs and their owners.
Dr Emma Scales-Theobald, a canine behaviourist at Canine Cottages, sheds light on the signs that indicate a dog’s affection. “Dogs communicate love in ways that may not always be obvious to us,” she explains. “From tail wags to cuddles, their gestures are deeply meaningful.”
The science behind canine love
Studies have shown that interacting with owners leads to increased oxytocin levels in dogs, reinforcing the idea that they experience emotions similar to human love. When petting their dogs, owners also release oxytocin, the “love hormone”, fostering a reciprocal bond.
“Understanding these signs helps owners strengthen their connection with their pets,” says Dr. Emma. “Dogs express affection in various ways, from physical closeness to sharing their most valued possessions.”
How dogs express love
- Seeking physical affection. Dogs that adore their owners often crave petting, which triggers the release of oxytocin in both human and dog. Signs of enjoyment include tail wags, soft eyes, and a relaxed posture. Some dogs prefer gentle chest rubs, while others favour ear scratches.
- Nudging for attention. If a dog nudges your hand or arm, they are requesting continued affection. This behaviour, whether playful or persistent, is their way of saying, “Don’t stop!” Responding positively reassures them that their affection is mutual.
- Staying close. Dogs are naturally social and feel secure in the presence of their favourite humans. Some prefer sitting on laps, while others choose to lie nearby. Their proximity reflects their trust and deep attachment.
- Leaning in for reassurance. When a dog leans against its owner, it is seeking closeness and comfort. Some may sit on their owner’s feet as a subtle sign of possession and devotion.
- Rolling over for belly rubs. A dog that exposes its belly demonstrates trust and affection. A relaxed posture and wagging tail indicate they are inviting a belly rub, while a tense body or pinned-back ears could signal submission or anxiety.
- Following from room to room. This behaviour, sometimes called “Velcro dog syndrome”, is common in loyal breeds. It signifies attachment and a desire to be near their owner at all times.
- Sharing prized possessions. When a dog brings its owner a toy, it is not just an invitation to play but also a sign of trust and affection. Retrievers and other toy-loving breeds frequently display this behaviour.
- Initiating play. A “play bow” – lowered front, raised hindquarters, wagging tail – is a universal invitation to play. Engaging in playtime reinforces the bond between dog and owner.
- Jumping up in excitement. Jumping is a natural greeting for dogs, allowing them to get closer to their owner’s face. While affectionate, this behaviour may require training to ensure safe interactions, especially with children or elderly individuals.
- Sleeping nearby. Dogs are most vulnerable when asleep, so choosing to rest near their owner signifies trust and security. Whether snuggling on a lap or sleeping at a short distance, this act demonstrates their love.
- Licking as a sign of affection. Many dogs lick their owners to express love, as licking releases endorphins and dopamine, making them feel happy. But excessive licking could indicate anxiety or pain, so it is essential to assess the context.
Dr Emma underscores the importance of recognising the difference between affectionate gestures and signs of stress. “Understanding your dog’s body language deepens your bond and helps you meet their emotional needs,” she says.
Shannon Keary from Canine Cottages adds: “If you’d like to show your dog love this Valentine’s Day, a getaway with your furry friend is a wonderful way to do so.”